Etiquette lessons for pre-teens extend beyond simply knowing how to shake hands appropriately. They assist in developing communication skills, acquiring good manners, and demonstrating respect for others and themselves. While certain social norms may evolve, the fundamental principles of etiquette remain consistent. It’s never too early for individuals to learn about social graces.

  • To register for the seminar presentation (October 12, 2024) visit the following link https://forms.gle/kuAiZDGZ1pFnV2Zg8 
  • To buy seminar tickets only (cost of $75.00) for October 12, 2024, visit https://pay.ELIINDIANA.COM/youngdiplomatseminaroct2024
  • To buy the seminar and dining tickets for October 12th & 13th, 2024 visit the following link (Note: attendees must reg for presentation)  https://pay.ELIINDIANA.COM/eliiyoungdiplsseminar2024 (cost $140.00 inclusive) 
  • Topics for discussion:
    • Session 1: October 12TH, 12:30 – 4:30 PM
      • Making a powerful introduction – using the eight ingredients of an introduction.
      • ABCs of Table Manners
      • Setting a four/five-course table place setting
      • Setting goals using the SMART process
      • Dealing with Accountability and Problem-solving
      • Why Manners and Rules of Etiquette are important
      • Art of Communication – building self-confidence
      • Students will present a 1 – 2-minute presentation on one of the following topics.
        • Who am I?
        • What are my goals and why?
        • Who is my role model, and why?
      • Thanking before you speak – not everything has to be said
      • Understanding your personal space in a public environment
      • Respecting adults
      • Perception management – what others see vs. what you want them to see.
    • Session 2: October 13, (12 noon – 3:00 PM)
      • Five-course dining tutorial at Sullivan’s Steakhouse (Keystone at the Crossing)
Young Diplomat Etiquette Seminar 1 (1)

The Young Diplomats (YD) program at the Etiquette and Leadership Institute of Indiana (ELII) is designed for pre-teens aged 8 to 13. YD etiquette seminars educate young boys and girls on manners and rules of etiquette. Students actively participate in role-play, conversations, Q&A sessions, and hands-on activities. Throughout the program, students have opportunities to nurture their creativity and curiosity.

It’s clear every parent desires their child to grasp and apply good manners. In today's world, pre-teens encounter rudeness frequently—whether during their commute to school, on the school bus, in the classroom, on social media, or while watching television. Despite the prevalence of rude behavior in modern culture, pre-teens remain learning contemporary manners, etiquette rules, and proper protocols.

To help identify those manners and etiquette mishaps here’s a list of questions. Does your pre-teen…

  • Know how to make friends easy?
  • Help mom and dad around the house?
  • Have challenges behaving at the dinner table?
  • Forget to write thank you notes when given a gift?
  • Lose sight of what’s right from wrong?
  • Has trouble getting along with friends in school?
  • Do they respect adults as well as themselves in all situations?
  • Know how to be a great guest or host?
  • Know how to use silver; spoon, fork, and knife safely?
  • Has trouble introducing themselves correctly (using the 8 ingredients of an introduction)?
  • Understands the meaning and purpose of manners, and rules of etiquette?
Regardless of the situation, enrolling your pre-teen in the Young Diplomats Etiquette and Leadership Seminars will equip them with the tools to transform their perspectives, enhance self-esteem, boost self-confidence, and pave the way toward a professional future.

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